Sunday, September 23, 2007

How stuffed cows become real


When Jon David was just a little baby (maybe 6 weeks old), I held a blue and yellow cow in front of his face and noticed that his face brightened up. I could not believe that he could already like a stuffed animal. Well, the love affair began and has been going strong every since. We have many pictures of this lovely cow in Jon David's mouth. Yes, that is the best place for stuffed cows, don't you know?? Here is a picture of him with the cow in February (he looks so little!).

This cow is showing signs of much love including the loss of an eye and part of his tail. Thankfully, the cow never leaves his crib except for his weekly bath, aka "trip to the washing machine." We have searched the web and toy stores for the past 22 months looking for a back-up cow. Well, my brilliant husband recently found not just one but two of these magical cows on eBay!

We made the switch one night and Jon David took a moment or two to inspect the new cow. We, of course, did not advertise that this was not "the" cow. We did not mention it at all. After looking it over and JD and I holding our breaths, the new cow was welcomed into his mouth. I guess he decided a new cow was better than no cow. We are now rotating the cows and sleeping easier at night knowing that we will never be without our cows!

Of course, I need to include a picture of baby brother. Josiah is doing really well. He's such a sweet baby! And - we went out three times last week all by ourselves!

Lastly, an excerpt from one of my favorite children's books, The Velveteen Rabbit...

"Real isn't how you are made," said the Skin Horse. "It's a thing that happens to you. When a child loves you for a long, long time, not just to play with, but REALLY loves you, then you become Real." "Does it hurt?" asked the Rabbit. "Sometimes," said the Skin Horse, for he was always truthful. "When you are Real you don't mind being hurt." "Does it happen all at once, like being wound up," he asked, "or bit by bit?" "It doesn't happen all at once," said the Skin Horse. "You become. It takes a long time. That's why it doesn't happen often to people who break easily, or have sharp edges, or who have to be carefully kept. Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in your joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly, except to people who don't understand."

7 comments:

Shana-Lynn said...

Love those cows. What a sweet post and I LOVE LOVE LOVE The Velveteen Rabbit.

Susie PSU said...

Wow, I didn't even recognize the one in the first picture as being the same as the new two! That old one is Real, alright...

erin said...

How funny...Sarah has an extremely similar, just as oral, obsession with a small stuffed bunny named "RaeRae". We bought four of them for the exact same reason!

Glad to see pics of Josiah too. He's looking BIG!!! and CUTE!!!

Andrea said...

Glad to see you back! I figured you have your hands full, but I missed seeing you! I am so glad your husband was able to find a few extra cows, because the first one looks VERY loved!

Wendy said...

What a beautiful post Densie! I love the Velveteen Rabbit, but had totally forgot about it. None of my kids were obsessesd with Animals. The love them not, but the certainly are not real yet!! Julia was the only child that attached to something, and it was of course a blanket the stopped making upon my purchase. I have found it on Ebay for $50 used!! No way!!

Denise Travis said...

HI! you guys are doing so well! brilliant about the cow and i lovrd the new pic of josiah! hes getting so big! is that one of those swaddle sacks??

Denise said...

Dear Other Denise,

Yes, we love us some Swaddle Me sacks!! Does Katie like them too?